Hmm. Yeah, I feel really uncomfortable with being an example of a Jew doing secular Christmas, because I'm not very Jewish and I hate secular Christmas. At least one of my students who does secular Christmas has a Catholic parent; I don't know about RY though. For all I know she doesn't even do Christmas. I have a vague recollection of my aunt L's kids doing Christmas, but these days she's a Messianic Jew; I don't know if she did Christmas before that. My dad himself does secular Christmas, of course, but he keeps marrying women who were raised Catholic. Even if my stepmom identifies as more Buddhist than anything else.

I know there are good examples, I'm just not myself one of them.